My name is Eric B Dangerfield (Phone 210-771-3449). Anonymous calls are
accepted. This post is a challenge. Many of you come here seeking the truth
or just dabbling around. The fact of the matter is that everybody here
knows that dreams are more than just dreams. Otherwise, everyone would be
engaged in the blatantly idiotic behavior of discusing asinine and totally
frivolous subjects. Thats not much different from babbling. So, what is
the truth that everyone is seeking? DREAMS ARE MORE THAN JUST DREAMS.
Don't just get all excited and accept your dreams just because they are
spectatcular or captivating. Prove the truth.

For your informaiton, demons attack and manipulate people every night and
every day with weird dreams, confusing dreams, nightmares, and erotic
dreams. That's why so many of us will pray after having a nightmare. We
understand somehow that it didn't come from God. So, how will we be alert
when we are sleeping. It's simple. "God, I don't know whether you will do
it or not, but I'm asking You to let me be alert when I'm sleeping. IF
something is bothering me that is not from YOU, then I want to let the light
expose any darkness around me. Thank You.

"Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of
God...........Hereby know ye the Spirit of God: Every spirit that confesses
that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh is of God: And every spirit that
does not confess that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh is not of God: and
this is the spirit of antichrist, whereof ye have heard that it should come:
and even now already is it in the world." 1 John 4:1-3

READ THIS FOR MORE DETAILED INFO.

THE TRUTH ABOUT OUR DREAMS
As Taught By The Holy Spirit & Revealed In The Word
"Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are
of God.." 1 John 4:1
My Friend,
I write you this day with an urgent message from Our Lord and Saviour,
Jesus Christ. Seven (7) years ago, God called me to preach in a vision. I
tried to run away from His call, and just like Jonah, I found myself
enduring a belly-of-the-whale experience. For your information, I have two
(2) college degrees, and have worked in the professional environment for
twenty (20) years. Yet, the things that have been revealed to me by the
Holy Spirit and the Word of God have no relation to the natural logic of
this world. About a year ago, God commanded me to teach His people the
truth about their dreams. That word is like a fire shut up in my bones.
Dreams are not "just" dreams. God speaks, and Satan attacks. God really
does exist and talks with us more often than we realize. Demons also exist,
and come to torment and abuse us more often than we realize. Unless we take
a stand even while we are sleeping, then we may find that the enemy has
planted a corrupt seed during the night that corrupts and hinders our
spiritual walk. Fear (nightmares) do not come from God. Sexual perversions
(erotic dreams) do not come from God. Confusion (weird dreams) do not come
from God. Do not let Satan use your mind as a perverted ground to corrupt
your body and weaken your spirit. Seek God at all times, even while you are
sleeping.
You see there is a reason that people are always talking about those dreams
that seem to be speaking to our spirits. If dreams were meaningless, then
so many of us would not engage in a meaningless activity of discussing them.
Yet, all over the country there are college classes, foundations, seminars,
and the like devoted to this area. You see, if dreams were just dreams,
then so many of us would not immediately pray after experiencing a
nightmare, or call our mother or some other friend. Deep down inside
somewhere in our spirit, the inner man knows that there was more to the
nightmare than meets the natural eye. Dreams and nightmares are more than
what they appear.
Be encouraged as you read and the word of God is opened unto you. God is
for you. None can be against you. (Romans 8:31) God expects for you to
fight. (1 Timothy 6:12). God expects for you to standfast in His grace.
God expects for you to put off the ways of this world and to put on the ways
of His kingdom. (Ephesians 4:22) God expects you to grow up in Christ.
(Ephesians 4:15) Meditate on the words in this letter. Test them. Prove
them. See if they are not so. You will find yourself in a "secret place"
where God Almighty begins to open unto you the scriptures and the heavens.
God bless you and keep you!
"And it came to pass, as he sat at meat with them, he took bread, and
blessed it, and brake it, and gave to them. And their eyes were opened, and
they knew him; and he vanished out of their sight. And they said one to
another, Did not our heart burn within us, while he talked with us by the
way, and while he opened to us the scriptures" Luke 24:30-32

THE TRUTH ABOUT OUR DREAMS

There is more to the world around us than meets the "natural" eye. Dreams
are not just dreams. In a time where men have learned so much, the Holy
Spirit has shown me that we know so little. There are invisible things in
this world that may only be seen through spiritual eyes. We are not just
flesh and blood doomed to the corruption of the grave. We are not just put
here on the earth to become wormfood. By the power of Almighty God, I
challenge everyone that is reading this information to prove the truth of
the doctrines and words continued inside. "but if ye will not do so,
behold, ye have sinned against the Lord: and be sure your sin will find you
out." There is nothing to gain by denying the truth. For we can do nothing
against the truth, but for the truth. It is time to change your view, and
change the results.

Facts To Note

1. Infants dream 50% of their sleep time
2. By 60, a person sleeps 175,200 hours, dreams 87,000 hours with
197,100 dreams
3. 40 million Americans suffer sleep-related problems
4. This Costs About $100 billion each year in accidents, medical bills
and lost work
5. 14 Million Americans experience reoccurring nightmares each night
6. Nightmares are with us almost from the time we are born until the
time we die
7. 49% of adults in a gallup poll said they had problems sleeping

This letter is to provide you with a basic understanding on dreams and what
they really mean. Over the past couple of years, I have given instructions
to many people on how to take charge of their dream worlds. Certainly, you
will find the accompanying information beneficial. It will help you, your
children, and your friends. That's already been proven by the men who have
thanked me for the benefits that they have received from this information.
They applied it, and it worked.

First, let us be clear about what dreams and nightmares are. They are more
than products of over active imaginations. They are not the subconscious
trying to tell us something. Dreams are a means of communication with our
inner man. We are spirit beings. We live in a flesh suit. One day this
suit will be discarded and we will find ourselves in the presence of the
Almighty. God is a spirit. Jesus became flesh. Thus, Jesus is a spirit,
too. In fact, the bible tells us that he that is joined to the Lord is one
spirit. Let that sink into your noggin.
Specifically, I have come to learn that there are only two things that
happen during our dreams. Either one receives a message/warning/instruction
from God ("For God speaketh once, yea twice, yet man perceiveth it not. In
a dream, in a vision of the night, when deep sleep falleth upon men, in
slumberings upon the bed; Then he openeth the ears of men, and sealeth their
instruction, That he may withdraw man from his purpose, and hide pride form
man." Job 33:14) Remember that Job is considered the oldest book in the
bible. God never changes. So, if God spoke to men a certain way yesterday,
He speaks to men in a similar manner today. in the 1st chapter of Job that
God had given Job into the hands of Satan. Job blamed God for bad dreams
which were really from Satan. Also, you should note that Job felt that the
bad dreams were of such an important nature that he actually bothered to
voice his complaint to God about the tormenting nature of his dreams. Job
did not just brush the nightmares off like so many of us today.

or ATTACKED BY DEMONS

If one does not receive a message from God, then rest assured that any weird
dream, erotic dream, or nightmare does not come from God. Every good gift
and every perfect gift comes from above from the Father of Lights. God is
light and in Him is no darkness. So, we can see that these other dreams
must come from somewhere else. The story of Job sheds light on the truth In
the seventh chapter, Job declares that "When I say, My bed shall comfort me,
my couch shall ease my complaints; Then thou scarest me with dreams, and
terrifiest me through visions." Job 7:13-14.

Now, we need to remember that in the 1st chapter that God had given Job into
the hands of Satan. In the first chapter, Satan pours fire from heaven upon
Job's sheep. We also see Satan cause a mighty wind to blow down the walls
of a house to kill Job's children. Thus, we see that Satan has miraculous
powers that affect the elements. Keep in mind the testimony of Jesus when
He rebuked the storm. Jesus does not fight against God. So, if He rebuked
the storm, then He was rebuking the powers of darkness. Think about it.
Back to the story of Job, we see that Job blames God for bad dreams. Yet,
we know that God had given Satan a green light to attack Job. The bad
dreams were not form God, but form Satan.
Also, you should note that Job felt that the bad dreams were of such an
important nature that he actually bothered to voice his complaint to God
about the tormenting nature of his dreams. Job did not just brush the
nightmares off like so many of us today. I urge you to seek the truth. Do
not just let tormenting stuff go on in your dreams when you can take a stand
on the word of God.
So, here is what happens. Man is a spiritual being. There is a spiritual
realm. When man enters sleep, the spirit reaches a heightened state of
awareness. Thus, there is a materiality to our dreams which scientists
study: yet, are not able to understand. The areas of our brain which
measure sensory input become more active when we sleep than when we are
awake. The area of our brain that shows that we are "seeing" something is
more intense during a dream. The area of our brain that shows we are
"hearing" something is more intense during a dream. The area of our brain
that shows we are "tasting" something is more intense, and so forth for the
other senses. Thus, it looks like we are more alive when we are sleep than
when we are awake.

WHO YOU ARE
The average Christian does not exercise his authority in Jesus. We must
learn to tap into that authority. Otherwise, we are putting ourselves at a
disadvantage in the spiritual battle that rages around us. That spiritual
battle renders results that affect us in the natural realm. Because of
weakened spirits, diseases get a hold of us. Because of weakened spirits,
society is full of dysfunctional individuals. Change your view. Change the
result. There is Creator who loves us tremendously. His name: Jesus. He
is involved in our daily affairs. The very breath that we breathe right
now, He provides. Throughout our lives, we have seen glimpses of His
presence. We know that there are things in our lives that are not just
coincidences. If we would just get our spiritual blinders off, we would see
that we must be truly special for Him give us this great big old planet,
these wonderful bodies, and then patiently sit back as we do our own thing.
Yet, constantly, He is trying to get out attention. I hope that you're
listening. Let these words sink down into your head. While we were yet
dead in our sins, we have been raised up to sit in heavenly places. See
Ephesians 2:5-6. We have a purpose. We have a destination. Life is not a
random chance from nothing.
OUR DREAMS
First, as I mentioned God speaks to us in our dreams. Certainly, you
remember Job. He is the one that Satan tested with trials and struggles
after God gave Satan permission to do so. It is considered to be the oldest
book in the bible. Well, in the Chapter 33, Verse 14-17, it is written:
For God speaketh once, yea twice, yet man perceiveth it not. In a dream, in
a vision of the night, when deep sleep falleth upon men, in slumberings upon
the bed; Then he openeth the ears of men, and sealeth their instruction,
That he may withdraw man from his purpose, and hide pride from man
Of course, we know that God never changes. See Malachi 3:6. Also, we know
that Jesus is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow. In the bible, God
spoke to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob in dreams. He spoke to Joseph, Daniel,
and Solomon. In fact, God also spoke to Paul at night. The reason that men
to day are so blind is that we are too smart for our own good. Hearing the
Lord's instruction is achieved by submitting to His ways, not our own. What
this means is that God still speaks to us in our dreams. In Joel 2:28, the
word of God tells us that in these last days, His spirit will be poured out
on all flesh. Young men and young women will have dreams and visions and
they will prophesy. To prophesy merely means to give a message. That is
what I am. I am a prophet. You can verify the things that I teach you. I
have taught them to quite a few people. They have put these things to the
test and found that they work. You don't have to let evil spirits come and
cause you or your children disturbing dreams. Take charge of your
situation. How? Learn about your authority. Learn how to get your eyes
opened and walk in that authority even when you are sleeping
YOUR AUTHORITY
In Luke 10:18-19; Mark 16:17; 2 Timothy 1:7; James 4:7, we see the
authority and power given to those of us who believe. For your benefit, it
is okay if you tell the Lord that you are not quite sure about how to tap
into His power. "Jesus, I'm not exactly certain how to tap into Your power
and authority. I do know Your sheep her Your voice. I believe that You
came to give me life and give it abundantly. I'm asking You to send Your
Holy Spirit to teach me how to be alert when I go to sleep. I'm asking You
to let me tap into the power and authority that You give to those who will
call on Your name. I am asking You to show me how to make up the hedge and
stand in the gap around my children."
Luke 10:18-19 (And he said unto them, I beheld Satan as lightning fall from
heaven. Behold, I give unto you power to tread [walk] on serpents and
scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy; and nothing shall by any
means hurt you.)
Mark 16:17 (And these signs shall follow them that believe; In my name shall
they cast out devils.)
2 Timothy 1:7 (For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power,
and of love, and of a sound mind.)
James 4:7 (Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he
will flee from you.)
HOW TO PRAY/TALK WITH AUTHORITY
Make up in your mind that enough is enough. Take a stand. Do not be
ignorant of Satan's devices. Just test this information. Jesus commands us
to watch and pray. Soldiers stay alert. We need to exercise authority
instead of pretending like we are weak. "Lord, please don't let me sleep
like others. If You are for me, then I'm looking for You to give my inner
man life even when I'm dreaming so that I can put a stop to these dreams
that are not from You. Also, I'm asking You that if You are truly for me,
then please give me spiritual understanding. Keep my eyes open."

TAKE CHARGE AGAINST SATAN AND ANY EVIL SPIRITS THAT ARE GATHERED AGAINST YOU

Listen Satan, I have been given all authority and power over you. (Luke
10:18-19; 2 Timothy 1:7). I have been commanded to cast you out. (Mark
16:17). In the name of Jesus, I command you to get behind me. The blood of
Jesus rebuke you. The testimony of Jesus condemn you. (Revelation 12:11).
No weapon formed against me shall prosper. (Isaiah 54:17). God is love and
I live in His love. (1 John 4:8; Acts 17:28). In the name of Jesus, I am
making up the hedge and standing in the gap around my child (Name). I
command you to get away from her/him. In the name of Jesus, I bind the evil
spirit or spirits that have been coming to torment her/him. Perfect love
casts out fear. My love toward NAME OF PERSON is perfect through the blood
of Jesus.

BEFORE GOING TO SLEEP: CONFESS THE FOLLOWING OUT LOUD
I will not sleep like others. I will be alert and evil spirits will not
cause me to have disturbing dreams. I choose to stand on the name of Jesus
even while sleeping to cast out anything that is not supposed to be messing
with my head.
ASK GOD TO SEND HIS ANGELS TO STAND GUARD AROUND YOUR CHILDREN
My friend, the Lord really does have angels that will come and minister to
you and your household. These angels have a responsibility to obey the
Lord. They are ministering spirits who are supposed to keep us on the path
of righteousness and safety. See Psalm 91. For your info, angels have
rescued me from evil attacks on numerous occasions. They are real. Just
because we may not see them in a physical sense does not mean that they are
not present. Open your mouth so that you can receive the Lord's blessings.
With the heart one believes to righteousness. With the mouth, one confesses
to salvation. To the one who orders his conversation aright, then he shall
see the salvation of the Lord. See Psalm 50:23 "Jesus, I ask You to fulfill
the word of God and send Your angels to stand guard over my child (Name).
In particular, I am looking to You to have Your angels keep my child from
harm and to chase the evil spirits away from him/her. Lord, I'm looking for
You to fulfill Your word and keep us in all our ways."
GOD'S MESSAGES
Every good gift and every perfect gift comes from above. If something is
troubling your spirit, it probably wasn't from your Creator. Test the
spirits. Only someone with the Holy Spirit can confess Jesus as Lord. (See
1 John 4:1-4) Forget about all those interpretation books. Just ask God to
give you the meaning of the dreams in which He is talking to you. He will
give it to You. (Genesis 40:8). You will know exactly what the dream
means. Also, write down your dreams. Many times, the interpretation will
come to you as you are writing them. Lastly, be wise. Do not tell everyone
your dreams, nor tell everyone about evil spirits. Everyone will not
understand. Some will think that you are nuts.
FOR YOUNGER CHILDREN
Let your children know that they need to also ask Jesus to keep them alert
at all times. Some things we don't understand. Yet, we use them anyhow.
We don't know the ends and outs of how nuclear plants produce electricity.
Yet, we still tap into the power. That is the same thing that we do with
Jesus. If we believe that electricity will flow when we plug in a cord or
turn on a switch, then we need to believe that Jesus will come to help us in
our times of needs. It is just that simple. When can teach our children
how to put on the whole armor of God. Remember that praise is perfected in
the mouths of babes. We need to understand that just the confession of
Jesus' authority and Lordship is an act of praise. A sword is sharp no
matter who wields it. So, the word of God is sharper than a two-edged sword
no matter who speaks it. The word of God never changes. Faith is the key
ingredient. So, let us teach our children authority. Here's a prayer for
children.
"Jesus please give my spirit life so that I can say "In the name of Jesus,
I command you to leave to anything that is bothering me in my sleep"

SUMMARY
1. God Speaks (Job 33:14; Malachi 3:6; Joel 2:28)
2. Satan Attacks (Job 7:14; Psalm 91:5-6)
3. Watch (1 Thess 5:6; Matt 26:40)
4. Prove (1 Thess 5:21; 1 John 4:1)
5. Stand/Fight (Numbers 32:20-23; Ephesians 6:10-18; Isaiah 54:17; Isaiah
41:15;)
(Jeremiah 23:29)

Remember that "death and life are in the power of the tongue and those who
love it will eat its fruit." Proverbs 18:21

"Whoever offers praise glorifies Me; and to him who orders his conduct
aright I will show the salvation of God." Psalm 50:23

From:	Stacey Whaley
Subject:	Re: DREAMS, NIGHTMARES, VISIONS: THE TRUTH
Date:	18 Jan 2005 05:59:05 -0800

personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk wrote:
> - Thousands of years ago, cats were worshipped as gods. Cats have
never
> forgotten this.

Ha! Silk, I *love* your tagline!

-Stacey
internetstuff47129@yahoo.com
"People that hate cats will come back as mice in their next life."
-- Faith Resnick

From:	personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk
Subject:	Re: DREAMS, NIGHTMARES, VISIONS: THE TRUTH
Date:	Wed, 19 Jan 2005 01:11:30 -0600

"Stacey Whaley" wrote in message
news:1106056745.389675.251220@z14g2000cwz.googlegroups.com...
> personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk wrote:
>> - Thousands of years ago, cats were worshipped as gods. Cats have
> never
>> forgotten this.
>
> Ha! Silk, I *love* your tagline!
>
> -Stacey
> internetstuff47129@yahoo.com
> "People that hate cats will come back as mice in their next life."
> -- Faith Resnick

Ha! will have to steal yours...! :-)

Meanwhile... I was gonna tell you something, but forgot it... :'(

From:	14love
Subject:	Re: DREAMS, NIGHTMARES, VISIONS: THE TRUTH
Date:	Fri, 14 Jan 2005 21:50:01 GMT

Listen Eric, avoid all these words please and tell me who is God and where
god is. Than I will reconsider it.

And listen something else boy, I haven't had with my wife for months
now. If I have some good in my dreams any soon I will consider it a gift
from mommy. So, please, mind your business and don't give me this morale.
Would ya?

(-:

From:	personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk
Subject:	Re: DREAMS, NIGHTMARES, VISIONS: THE TRUTH
Date:	Sat, 15 Jan 2005 09:49:05 -0600

"14love" wrote in message
news:d8XFd.209013$Np3.8875460@ursa-nb00s0.nbnet.nb.ca...
> Listen Eric, avoid all these words please and tell me who is God and where
> god is. Than I will reconsider it.
>
> And listen something else boy, I haven't had with my wife for months
> now. If I have some good in my dreams any soon I will consider it a
> gift from mommy. So, please, mind your business and don't give me this
> morale. Would ya?

Ok, so who's having the affair? You, or your wife?
If -- in ALL honesty -- *neither* of you are having one, then you need to
make a "date" with your wife to go out some night... just a restaurant,
movie, bowling... anything. Be sure to show up with flowers when you meet
her that night at the door.

From:	14love
Subject:	Re: DREAMS, NIGHTMARES, VISIONS: THE TRUTH
Date:	Sat, 15 Jan 2005 17:13:15 GMT

"personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk" wrote in message
news:41e9391b$1_2@newspeer2.tds.net...
> "14love" wrote in message
> news:d8XFd.209013$Np3.8875460@ursa-nb00s0.nbnet.nb.ca...
>> Listen Eric, avoid all these words please and tell me who is God and
>> where god is. Than I will reconsider it.
>>
>> And listen something else boy, I haven't had with my wife for months
>> now. If I have some good in my dreams any soon I will consider it a
>> gift from mommy. So, please, mind your business and don't give me this
>> morale. Would ya?
>
> Ok, so who's having the affair? You, or your wife?
> If -- in ALL honesty -- *neither* of you are having one, then you need to
> make a "date" with your wife to go out some night... just a restaurant,
> movie, bowling... anything. Be sure to show up with flowers when you meet
> her that night at the door.
>
>
I guess so. Excuse me for this out-of-thread discussion.
I have to say that life, our life, is too busy for us to be syncronized.
Life is not perfect and for busy people it's just like a small daily
sacrifice. For example, if I am in the mood to get closer to her she is not,
when she is in the mood to get closer to me I am not. Of course, I forgot
this, never give any tech device to your woman as gift 'cause she'll just
forget about you and use you as a personal diary. I guess I am the jerk but
I do have a problem with her. I am quite OK with her and she is lovable
compared to me. I think I gave away my freedom too many times for her but
she is the one keeping the comunication more open with the two of us and she
is the one doing more for the two of us. I'm always concentrated too much on
people from the outside of the family circle and I realize I'm always
picking on her when she is not acting the way I expecte her to act in public
or toward me while I am spending my time with new friends. Last night for
example I went out for my first time in years and she was jealous and ruined
my night. It's true there were 3 gorgeus girls at the house of my friends,
one of them was just kissable but I didn't do anything wrong, yet. Actually
this kind of lack of freedom and the rest is taking a toll on my love toward
her at the point that I alway fight with myself to keep this love alive.
When we are alone we are OK, we are somewhat less OK today than we used to
be when we were younger and when it comes time to socialize I am not at ease
with her. She lacks somewhat the ability to be sensible to the problems of
other people. She is kind of mercyless when she she other girls not being
clean enough, hard-workers enough or busy enough. I guess she might feel not
that proud of me as well, since I am not so funny anymore but she never told
me anything that might have offended me. This is the beauty of her. She
hardly tells something wrong about me but she always has something to say
about others. This amazes me and perhaps it keeps me wondering about her up
to this day. She is indeed a lucky girl. She must have received some kind of
blessing from her mother or from I don't know exactely who. Anyway, this is
a kind of "I love you today but leave me alone tomorrow" situation all the
times. So you were talking about flowers? Restaurant? I don't know. Lately I
think she is looking for something different. Probably one day I will find
out what it is and, maybe, I will be able to tell. Maybe, maybe not. Now, I
want to finish this note with the good points about her: she is very clean,
organized and fast; she is also very good in the kitchen and y enough.
Sexy looking not y doing it. (-:

Thanks, personal, for your attention.

From:	personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk
Subject:	Re: DREAMS, NIGHTMARES, VISIONS: THE TRUTH
Date:	Sat, 15 Jan 2005 16:01:22 -0600

This situation is easily summed up from an *outsider's* objective viewpoint:

she is the jealous type: the reason she's always picking bad things about
other women is because she's insecure and is actually worried about losing
you to them. Thus, by belittling them, she makes herself feel more valuable
to *you*, as they are now "less than worthy" by her judgments and by your
implied consent. Hint, when next she does this, turn it around and flatter
her:

(something like) :
She: "She's nothing but a ___ -- look at her! Her hair is a MESS"
Thee: "You're absolutely right, honey. I couldn't help but notice earlier
tonight how *attractive* (or "y"?) your hair looks right now..." (be
sure you're looking directly into her eyes when you say this... you can FEEL
the lust inside of you, even tho it may be a downright lie... ) THEN, go
ahead and flirt all you want to with the other women, just remember it's
okay to read the menu as long as you eat at home! :-)

If she blows this compliment off, don't worry, don't make an issue. Just
give her another support-line later in the evening, then another, and
another...

Later, when you get home, tell her how keen her insight was for the evening,
then look at her, like a poised trigger on a gun, and shut the hell up. If
she's ready to pounce, she'll pounce! :-)

Also, ask her to make you a "honey dew" list... "Honey, do this, honey, do
that..." and FINISH it before the end of the day. For some people, actions
speak WAY louder than words.

And remember to make a DATE with her! if your lives are so unsynchronized
as you say, then making a date is the best way to fix it. Start planning on
Monday, check up on Wednesday, confirm on Friday, and execute on Fri or Sat
night. Remember to get her flowers. Speaking of which... I got a dozen I
need to go pick up... !

"14love" wrote in message
news:LacGd.210887$Np3.8898599@ursa-nb00s0.nbnet.nb.ca...
>
> "personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk" wrote in message
> news:41e9391b$1_2@newspeer2.tds.net...
>> "14love" wrote in message
>> news:d8XFd.209013$Np3.8875460@ursa-nb00s0.nbnet.nb.ca...
>>> Listen Eric, avoid all these words please and tell me who is God and
>>> where god is. Than I will reconsider it.
>>>
>>> And listen something else boy, I haven't had with my wife for months
>>> now. If I have some good in my dreams any soon I will consider it a
>>> gift from mommy. So, please, mind your business and don't give me this
>>> morale. Would ya?
>>
>> Ok, so who's having the affair? You, or your wife?
>> If -- in ALL honesty -- *neither* of you are having one, then you need to
>> make a "date" with your wife to go out some night... just a restaurant,
>> movie, bowling... anything. Be sure to show up with flowers when you
>> meet her that night at the door.
>>
>>
> I guess so. Excuse me for this out-of-thread discussion.
> I have to say that life, our life, is too busy for us to be syncronized.
> Life is not perfect and for busy people it's just like a small daily
> sacrifice. For example, if I am in the mood to get closer to her she is
> not, when she is in the mood to get closer to me I am not. Of course, I
> forgot this, never give any tech device to your woman as gift 'cause
> she'll just forget about you and use you as a personal diary. I guess I am
> the jerk but I do have a problem with her. I am quite OK with her and she
> is lovable compared to me. I think I gave away my freedom too many times
> for her but she is the one keeping the comunication more open with the two
> of us and she is the one doing more for the two of us. I'm always
> concentrated too much on people from the outside of the family circle and
> I realize I'm always picking on her when she is not acting the way I
> expecte her to act in public or toward me while I am spending my time with
> new friends. Last night for example I went out for my first time in years
> and she was jealous and ruined my night. It's true there were 3 gorgeus
> girls at the house of my friends, one of them was just kissable but I
> didn't do anything wrong, yet. Actually this kind of lack of freedom and
> the rest is taking a toll on my love toward her at the point that I alway
> fight with myself to keep this love alive. When we are alone we are OK, we
> are somewhat less OK today than we used to be when we were younger and
> when it comes time to socialize I am not at ease with her. She lacks
> somewhat the ability to be sensible to the problems of other people. She
> is kind of mercyless when she she other girls not being clean enough,
> hard-workers enough or busy enough. I guess she might feel not that proud
> of me as well, since I am not so funny anymore but she never told me
> anything that might have offended me. This is the beauty of her. She
> hardly tells something wrong about me but she always has something to say
> about others. This amazes me and perhaps it keeps me wondering about her
> up to this day. She is indeed a lucky girl. She must have received some
> kind of blessing from her mother or from I don't know exactely who.
> Anyway, this is a kind of "I love you today but leave me alone tomorrow"
> situation all the times. So you were talking about flowers? Restaurant? I
> don't know. Lately I think she is looking for something different.
> Probably one day I will find out what it is and, maybe, I will be able to
> tell. Maybe, maybe not. Now, I want to finish this note with the good
> points about her: she is very clean, organized and fast; she is also very
> good in the kitchen and y enough. Sexy looking not y doing it. (-:
>
> Thanks, personal, for your attention.

From:	1_4love
Subject:	Re: DREAMS, NIGHTMARES, VISIONS: THE TRUTH
Date:	Sat, 15 Jan 2005 23:43:00 GMT

"personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk" wrote in message
news:41e9905b$1_3@newspeer2.tds.net...
> This situation is easily summed up from an *outsider's* objective
> viewpoint:
>
> she is the jealous type: the reason she's always picking bad things about
> other women is because she's insecure and is actually worried about losing
> you to them. Thus, by belittling them, she makes herself feel more
> valuable to *you*, as they are now "less than worthy" by her judgments and
> by your implied consent. Hint, when next she does this, turn it around
> and flatter her:
>
> (something like) :
> She: "She's nothing but a ___ -- look at her! Her hair is a MESS"
> Thee: "You're absolutely right, honey. I couldn't help but notice
> earlier tonight how *attractive* (or "y"?) your hair looks right
> now..." (be sure you're looking directly into her eyes when you say
> this... you can FEEL the lust inside of you, even tho it may be a
> downright lie... ) THEN, go ahead and flirt all you want to with the
> other women, just remember it's okay to read the menu as long as you eat
> at home! :-)
>
> If she blows this compliment off, don't worry, don't make an issue. Just
> give her another support-line later in the evening, then another, and
> another...
>
> Later, when you get home, tell her how keen her insight was for the
> evening, then look at her, like a poised trigger on a gun, and shut the
> hell up. If she's ready to pounce, she'll pounce! :-)
>
> Also, ask her to make you a "honey dew" list... "Honey, do this, honey, do
> that..." and FINISH it before the end of the day. For some people,
> actions speak WAY louder than words.
>
> And remember to make a DATE with her! if your lives are so unsynchronized
> as you say, then making a date is the best way to fix it. Start planning
> on Monday, check up on Wednesday, confirm on Friday, and execute on Fri or
> Sat night. Remember to get her flowers. Speaking of which... I got a
> dozen I need to go pick up... !
>
>
> "14love" wrote in message
> news:LacGd.210887$Np3.8898599@ursa-nb00s0.nbnet.nb.ca...
>>
>> "personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk" wrote in message
>> news:41e9391b$1_2@newspeer2.tds.net...
>>> "14love" wrote in message
>>> news:d8XFd.209013$Np3.8875460@ursa-nb00s0.nbnet.nb.ca...
>>>> Listen Eric, avoid all these words please and tell me who is God and
>>>> where god is. Than I will reconsider it.
>>>>
>>>> And listen something else boy, I haven't had with my wife for
>>>> months now. If I have some good in my dreams any soon I will
>>>> consider it a gift from mommy. So, please, mind your business and don't
>>>> give me this morale. Would ya?
>>>
>>> Ok, so who's having the affair? You, or your wife?
>>> If -- in ALL honesty -- *neither* of you are having one, then you need
>>> to make a "date" with your wife to go out some night... just a
>>> restaurant, movie, bowling... anything. Be sure to show up with flowers
>>> when you meet her that night at the door.
>>>
>>>
>> I guess so. Excuse me for this out-of-thread discussion.
>> I have to say that life, our life, is too busy for us to be syncronized.
>> Life is not perfect and for busy people it's just like a small daily
>> sacrifice. For example, if I am in the mood to get closer to her she is
>> not, when she is in the mood to get closer to me I am not. Of course, I
>> forgot this, never give any tech device to your woman as gift 'cause
>> she'll just forget about you and use you as a personal diary. I guess I
>> am the jerk but I do have a problem with her. I am quite OK with her and
>> she is lovable compared to me. I think I gave away my freedom too many
>> times for her but she is the one keeping the comunication more open with
>> the two of us and she is the one doing more for the two of us. I'm always
>> concentrated too much on people from the outside of the family circle and
>> I realize I'm always picking on her when she is not acting the way I
>> expecte her to act in public or toward me while I am spending my time
>> with new friends. Last night for example I went out for my first time in
>> years and she was jealous and ruined my night. It's true there were 3
>> gorgeus girls at the house of my friends, one of them was just kissable
>> but I didn't do anything wrong, yet. Actually this kind of lack of
>> freedom and the rest is taking a toll on my love toward her at the point
>> that I alway fight with myself to keep this love alive. When we are alone
>> we are OK, we are somewhat less OK today than we used to be when we were
>> younger and when it comes time to socialize I am not at ease with her.
>> She lacks somewhat the ability to be sensible to the problems of other
>> people. She is kind of mercyless when she she other girls not being clean
>> enough, hard-workers enough or busy enough. I guess she might feel not
>> that proud of me as well, since I am not so funny anymore but she never
>> told me anything that might have offended me. This is the beauty of her.
>> She hardly tells something wrong about me but she always has something to
>> say about others. This amazes me and perhaps it keeps me wondering about
>> her up to this day. She is indeed a lucky girl. She must have received
>> some kind of blessing from her mother or from I don't know exactely who.
>> Anyway, this is a kind of "I love you today but leave me alone tomorrow"
>> situation all the times. So you were talking about flowers? Restaurant? I
>> don't know. Lately I think she is looking for something different.
>> Probably one day I will find out what it is and, maybe, I will be able to
>> tell. Maybe, maybe not. Now, I want to finish this note with the good
>> points about her: she is very clean, organized and fast; she is also very
>> good in the kitchen and y enough. Sexy looking not y doing it. (-:
>>
>> Thanks, personal, for your attention.
>
>
Holy God! Do you have some kind of power over here? Or is it my confessions
to you? I got lucky already and I even got the special.
Can't go into the details. (-;

Thank you for the nice post girls.
You know your business, I guess! I'll try your tips.
Let's flirt now.

3,
2,
1,

Flirt!

I love you.

From:	Stacey Whaley
Subject:	Re: DREAMS, NIGHTMARES, VISIONS: THE TRUTH
Date:	Sat, 15 Jan 2005 23:54:00 GMT

"1_4love" wrote in message
news:8UhGd.211069$Np3.8904946@ursa-nb00s0.nbnet.nb.ca...
>
> "personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk" wrote in message
> news:41e9905b$1_3@newspeer2.tds.net...
> > This situation is easily summed up from an *outsider's* objective
> > viewpoint:
> >
> > she is the jealous type: the reason she's always picking bad things
about
> > other women is because she's insecure and is actually worried about
losing
> > you to them. Thus, by belittling them, she makes herself feel more
> > valuable to *you*, as they are now "less than worthy" by her judgments
and
> > by your implied consent. Hint, when next she does this, turn it around
> > and flatter her:
> >
> > (something like) :
> > She: "She's nothing but a ___ -- look at her! Her hair is a MESS"
> > Thee: "You're absolutely right, honey. I couldn't help but notice
> > earlier tonight how *attractive* (or "y"?) your hair looks right
> > now..." (be sure you're looking directly into her eyes when you say
> > this... you can FEEL the lust inside of you, even tho it may be a
> > downright lie... ) THEN, go ahead and flirt all you want to with the
> > other women, just remember it's okay to read the menu as long as you eat
> > at home! :-)
> >
> > If she blows this compliment off, don't worry, don't make an issue.
Just
> > give her another support-line later in the evening, then another, and
> > another...
> >
> > Later, when you get home, tell her how keen her insight was for the
> > evening, then look at her, like a poised trigger on a gun, and shut the
> > hell up. If she's ready to pounce, she'll pounce! :-)
> >
> > Also, ask her to make you a "honey dew" list... "Honey, do this, honey,
do
> > that..." and FINISH it before the end of the day. For some people,
> > actions speak WAY louder than words.
> >
> > And remember to make a DATE with her! if your lives are so
unsynchronized
> > as you say, then making a date is the best way to fix it. Start
planning
> > on Monday, check up on Wednesday, confirm on Friday, and execute on Fri
or
> > Sat night. Remember to get her flowers. Speaking of which... I got a
> > dozen I need to go pick up... !
> >
> >
> > "14love" wrote in message
> > news:LacGd.210887$Np3.8898599@ursa-nb00s0.nbnet.nb.ca...
> >>
> >> "personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk" wrote in
message
> >> news:41e9391b$1_2@newspeer2.tds.net...
> >>> "14love" wrote in message
> >>> news:d8XFd.209013$Np3.8875460@ursa-nb00s0.nbnet.nb.ca...
> >>>> Listen Eric, avoid all these words please and tell me who is God and
> >>>> where god is. Than I will reconsider it.
> >>>>
> >>>> And listen something else boy, I haven't had with my wife for
> >>>> months now. If I have some good in my dreams any soon I will
> >>>> consider it a gift from mommy. So, please, mind your business and
don't
> >>>> give me this morale. Would ya?
> >>>
> >>> Ok, so who's having the affair? You, or your wife?
> >>> If -- in ALL honesty -- *neither* of you are having one, then you need
> >>> to make a "date" with your wife to go out some night... just a
> >>> restaurant, movie, bowling... anything. Be sure to show up with
flowers
> >>> when you meet her that night at the door.
> >>>
> >>>
> >> I guess so. Excuse me for this out-of-thread discussion.
> >> I have to say that life, our life, is too busy for us to be
syncronized.
> >> Life is not perfect and for busy people it's just like a small daily
> >> sacrifice. For example, if I am in the mood to get closer to her she is
> >> not, when she is in the mood to get closer to me I am not. Of course, I
> >> forgot this, never give any tech device to your woman as gift 'cause
> >> she'll just forget about you and use you as a personal diary. I guess I
> >> am the jerk but I do have a problem with her. I am quite OK with her
and
> >> she is lovable compared to me. I think I gave away my freedom too many
> >> times for her but she is the one keeping the comunication more open
with
> >> the two of us and she is the one doing more for the two of us. I'm
always
> >> concentrated too much on people from the outside of the family circle
and
> >> I realize I'm always picking on her when she is not acting the way I
> >> expecte her to act in public or toward me while I am spending my time
> >> with new friends. Last night for example I went out for my first time
in
> >> years and she was jealous and ruined my night. It's true there were 3
> >> gorgeus girls at the house of my friends, one of them was just kissable
> >> but I didn't do anything wrong, yet. Actually this kind of lack of
> >> freedom and the rest is taking a toll on my love toward her at the
point
> >> that I alway fight with myself to keep this love alive. When we are
alone
> >> we are OK, we are somewhat less OK today than we used to be when we
were
> >> younger and when it comes time to socialize I am not at ease with her.
> >> She lacks somewhat the ability to be sensible to the problems of other
> >> people. She is kind of mercyless when she she other girls not being
clean
> >> enough, hard-workers enough or busy enough. I guess she might feel not
> >> that proud of me as well, since I am not so funny anymore but she never
> >> told me anything that might have offended me. This is the beauty of
her.
> >> She hardly tells something wrong about me but she always has something
to
> >> say about others. This amazes me and perhaps it keeps me wondering
about
> >> her up to this day. She is indeed a lucky girl. She must have received
> >> some kind of blessing from her mother or from I don't know exactely
who.
> >> Anyway, this is a kind of "I love you today but leave me alone
tomorrow"
> >> situation all the times. So you were talking about flowers? Restaurant?
I
> >> don't know. Lately I think she is looking for something different.
> >> Probably one day I will find out what it is and, maybe, I will be able
to
> >> tell. Maybe, maybe not. Now, I want to finish this note with the good
> >> points about her: she is very clean, organized and fast; she is also
very
> >> good in the kitchen and y enough. Sexy looking not y doing it.
(-:
> >>
> >> Thanks, personal, for your attention.
> >
> >
> Holy God! Do you have some kind of power over here? Or is it my
confessions
> to you? I got lucky already and I even got the special.
> Can't go into the details. (-;
>
> Thank you for the nice post girls.
> You know your business, I guess! I'll try your tips.
> Let's flirt now.
>
> 3,
> 2,
> 1,
>
> Flirt!
>
> I love you.

*giggles* Personal is a man. Or did you already know that? Hey, each to
his own! I fully support the cause! :)

*chuckles* You've made my day.

-Stacey (Now *I'M* a woman, yes....)
internetstuff47129@yahoo.com

From:	personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk
Subject:	Re: DREAMS, NIGHTMARES, VISIONS: THE TRUTH
Date:	Tue, 18 Jan 2005 04:54:15 -0600

"1_4love" wrote in message
news:8UhGd.211069$Np3.8904946@ursa-nb00s0.nbnet.nb.ca...
>
> "personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk" wrote in message

1_4: >>> Thanks, personal, for your attention.

You can call me Silk, if you like. It's my last name, and I often use it as
my "handle."

> Holy God! Do you have some kind of power over here? Or is it my
> confessions to you? I got lucky already and I even got the special.
> Can't go into the details. (-;

Confession is good for the soul, so they say. Focusing on *yourself* and
your *own faults* and having an express desire to *improve* them is what SHE
is there to help you with (hence, her need to lay you to help adjust your
course / path.)

> Thank you for the nice post girls.

I'm a guy, but I suspect the chicks around here have been personally
e-mailing you as well.

> You know your business, I guess! I'll try your tips.
> Let's flirt now.

Let's don't and say we did :-)

Dick Silk -- The Computer Tutor
http://personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk
for rates and online chat

- Thousands of years ago, cats were worshipped as gods. Cats have never
forgotten this.

From:	Stacey Whaley
Subject:	Re: DREAMS, NIGHTMARES, VISIONS: THE TRUTH
Date:	Fri, 14 Jan 2005 22:04:38 GMT

"14love" wrote in message
news:d8XFd.209013$Np3.8875460@ursa-nb00s0.nbnet.nb.ca...
> Listen Eric, avoid all these words please and tell me who is God and where
> god is. Than I will reconsider it.
>
> And listen something else boy, I haven't had with my wife for months
> now. If I have some good in my dreams any soon I will consider it a
gift
> from mommy. So, please, mind your business and don't give me this morale.
> Would ya?
>
> (-:

That's something to say "Amen" to, isn't it! ;)

-Stacey
internetstuff47129@yahoo.com

From:	14love
Subject:	Re: DREAMS, NIGHTMARES, VISIONS: THE TRUTH
Date:	Sat, 15 Jan 2005 05:09:11 GMT

"Stacey Whaley" wrote in message
news:WlXFd.6598$S11.5663@bgtnsc04-news.ops.worldnet.att.net...
> "14love" wrote in message
> news:d8XFd.209013$Np3.8875460@ursa-nb00s0.nbnet.nb.ca...
>> Listen Eric, avoid all these words please and tell me who is God and
>> where
>> god is. Than I will reconsider it.
>>
>> And listen something else boy, I haven't had with my wife for months
>> now. If I have some good in my dreams any soon I will consider it a
> gift
>> from mommy. So, please, mind your business and don't give me this morale.
>> Would ya?
>>
>> (-:
>
> That's something to say "Amen" to, isn't it! ;)
>
> -Stacey
> internetstuff47129@yahoo.com
>
>

You can say so my dear. It's the will of God. What else can we do? (-:
While some people speak to their father I'd love to listen to my Mother. I
have already listen to my Father and never heard that kind of stuff. I guess
it depends from the phone lines. (-;
But then...what the heck! How can one say this or that was the voice of God?
Was it approved by the community? Is it in harmony with God? Where does the
good and the bad come from anyway? Ohhhoo, maaan! This is the same old
story. Sweep it! Sweep it! Keep the house clean! Use Lysol to get off the
stain.

From:	Stacey Whaley
Subject:	Re: DREAMS, NIGHTMARES, VISIONS: THE TRUTH
Date:	19 Jan 2005 07:25:14 -0800

personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk wrote:
> "Stacey Whaley" wrote in message
> news:1106056745.389675.251220@z14g2000cwz.googlegroups.com...
> > personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk wrote:
> >> - Thousands of years ago, cats were worshipped as gods. Cats have
> > never
> >> forgotten this.
> >
> > Ha! Silk, I *love* your tagline!
> >
> > -Stacey
> > internetstuff47129@yahoo.com
> > "People that hate cats will come back as mice in their next life."
> > -- Faith Resnick
>
> Ha! will have to steal yours...! :-)
>
> Meanwhile... I was gonna tell you something, but forgot it... :'(

I hate it when that happens! Now I have to sit here and wonder what
you were going to tell me! :P

-Stacey
internetstuff47129@yahoo.com

From:	personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk
Subject:	Re: DREAMS, NIGHTMARES, VISIONS: THE TRUTH
Date:	Wed, 19 Jan 2005 23:52:29 -0600

"Stacey Whaley" wrote in message
news:1106148313.969362.100340@z14g2000cwz.googlegroups.com...
> personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk wrote:
>> "Stacey Whaley" wrote in message
>> news:1106056745.389675.251220@z14g2000cwz.googlegroups.com...
>> > personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk wrote:
>> >> - Thousands of years ago, cats were worshipped as gods. Cats have
>> > never
>> >> forgotten this.
>> >
>> > Ha! Silk, I *love* your tagline!
>> >
>> > -Stacey
>> > internetstuff47129@yahoo.com
>> > "People that hate cats will come back as mice in their next life."
>> > -- Faith Resnick
>>
>> Ha! will have to steal yours...! :-)
>>
>> Meanwhile... I was gonna tell you something, but forgot it... :'(
>
> I hate it when that happens! Now I have to sit here and wonder what
> you were going to tell me! :P

Ummm... you're y?